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Don’t Lie in Your Profile

Lying on your online dating profile isn’t going to get you anywhere. As soon as you meet your date they will figure out that you lied and you’ll never see them again. This is especially the case if you lied about your appearance but also if you lied about your interests. They will soon discover that you are not who you said you were and that’ll be the end of it. Even if you do manage to continue the lie for a while, what purpose does that serve? Do you feel better about yourself because you got a date? You’re just wasting the person’s time and when they find out they are likely to be furious.

Why would you want to lie anyway? If you say you like to listen to popular music when you really like classical music just because you think that is what people want to hear then you’re doing yourself a disservice. Wouldn’t you rather find someone who shares your interests so you can enjoy these things together?

Most people agree that lying on your dating profile is not a good thing:

Lies are always good for the short term and bad for the long term. Singles need to hold themselves to a higher standard of integrity. I advise anyone who goes on a date and finds themselves in front of a liar to immediately excuse themselves from that date. "Sorry, I’m not comfortable continuing with this date because you lied to me. It was a pleasure meeting you however. Thanks, bye."  This should include lies about age, weight, pictures which are significantly inaccurate/photo shopped.  Lies are the BANE of this industry. A huge detriment. I highly, highly recommend site owners to advise their users to represent themselves in their best possible light within the realms of complete honesty. 

One of the reasons services like Great Expectations and The Right One are doing well, and charging thousands of dollars, is because their clients expect to see truthful profiles and know, truly, who they are meeting before their first date. Less surprises, means more value to clients.  Higher integrity leads to higher profits…in the long run.

So even if your dating profile contains a few white lies then change it now and be completely honest. Don’t waste people’s time. Don’t hurt people over something so silly. Here are a few tips on writing your dating profile.

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